Can I give other members my "real" e-mail address?
Of course! Just don't put it in your profile where it is available to the public. You provide personal information to other users at your own risk. Most people are honest but be careful! Under no circumstances will Singles with Scruples be responsible for any loss or damage, including personal injury or death, resulting from anyone's use of the Website or the Service, any Content posted on the Website or transmitted to Members, or any interactions between users of the Website, whether online or offline. See Terms of Service for additional information.
Do you ever read my e-mail?
Are your emails really that good? Truthfully, we have thousands of members and we don't have time to read your messages. But it is possible for the site administrators/hosting providers to read your messages. However we don't think that would be scrupulous. However, you should know that we plan on cooperating and providing information to legal agencies should we ever get asked.
How do I get a jerk to stop e-mailing me?
Click on the subject to read a message in your mailbox, then click on Block User. You will have no further contact from this member.
How do I get the "real" e-mail address of another member?
They will have to choose to provide that information to you.
How do I respond to another member's e-mail?
You'll find their message in your Mailbox - the link is at the top of the screen when you are logged in as a member.
How do I respond when another member winks at me?
If you have NOT upgraded your membership this might be a good time to spend a little and send an email, otherwise all you can do is respond in kind and wink back. View their profile and click "Wink at {MemberName}." If you have upgraded your membership you can send an email from your mailbox.
How do I send another member an e-mail message?
View a members profile then click "send message" under the photo. If you have up upgraded your membership, you will be notified and you'll have to click and purchase an upgrade.
How will another member know if I e-mailed them?
A message is to a members regular POP email account to let them that mail from another member is waiting in the system for them to read.
I accidentally deleted an e-mail message. How do I get it back?!
Bummer. Deleted is deleted. Sorry about that.
If I send another member e-mail, does it cost them to reply?
No, it is free to reply. Ain't it great?
Someone is harrassing me. How do I get them off my back?!
Kindly, ask them to stop contacting you. Block them. (see above) Always let us know the exact details and we can remove them from SWS. If they are harrassing you in person, by phone or stalking you in person, contact your local authorities.
Will you ever use my private information to send me junk mail?
We will not sell or knowingly provide your email to other companies. We will send you info and updates about our services. We might start some kind of a newsletter. There is an automated system in this site to notify you about new members.
How do I change my email address in your system?
This is easy! Sign in, click "My Profile", click "Modify profile" - a couple of blanks down is your email address, enter your new email address.